Clergywoman Pastor Tolu Odukoya has confirmed that she is no longer in her marriage, describing the experience as one of the hardest seasons of her life.
Speaking openly, Pastor Tolu said the separation felt like death. Between 2021 and 2023, she explained that she had already faced multiple losses the passing of her father, her stepmother, and her dad’s twin sister and the end of her marriage came as another painful blow.
She was, however, quick to clarify that her ex-husband wasn’t a bad man. According to her, he was good to her, but if two people are not meant for each other, no matter how much effort is made, it simply won’t work. “If God is not in it, you can’t force it to happen,” she said.
When asked about the role of family, Tolu revealed that her siblings have been her biggest support system through it all, and she remains grateful to God for them.
